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Phone Sex With Your Partner
Now you may be wondering, how can you get phone sex from a sexy friend instead of just chatting online? While normally the next logical step would be an in-person date or a steamy smooch, these are out of the question at the moment. You and your partner are too busy with work or look after a sick kid, so it’s time for something a little different. Phone Sex is the answer.
The first and best part of Phone Sex is that it doesn’t cost you a thing. Unlike meeting up for real, Phone Sex is a pure fantasy situation that lets you have your much-desired Phone Sex without worrying about your partner finding out (which will be embarrassing). If your partner is used to Phone Sex, they’ll never know that you’re using a fake Phone Sex service, and they’ll never tell if they enjoy it or not. Your partner just might think that you’re having fun with them, which is always a bonus!
Of course, having Phone Sex will still involve some of the same foreplay (kissing, touching, caressing), but all the dirty talk will be done over the phone. That way you can keep your partner guessing without letting them in on your true desires. Now you can say “oh yeah, I can tell you now, your dick is so small!”
If you want to try Phone Sex, but your partner is not so sure about it, then you can always start out by being a bit more vocal in your wishes. “Yes, master, I want to touch your penis” is a bit more explicit than “master, I want to kiss you.” However, keep in mind that it should be clear to your partner that you are enjoying the Phone Sex more than anything else, and that you want to take it to the next level. Once you get beyond the point of being a little vocal about wanting Phone Sex, then you can always try the actual sexting!
What is “sexting”? Well, in general, any sort of dirty talk that is directed towards your partner will be considered “sexting”. In other words, if your partner wants to “sexually” touch you in ways that you’ve never imagined, then it is considered “sexting”. However, there are some phones that allow you to turn off the sound and see through your eyes while you make your “sexted” words. This can add a lot of fun to Phone Sex, because now you have a way to see what your partner’s reaction is when they get “sexted”.
So, when it comes to “dirty talk” for Phone Sex, you should remember that everything that you say to your partner is on record. That is the great thing about technology – it lets us communicate with each other in new and exciting ways. With this in mind, the next time you two are feeling frustrated or shy because you are having trouble with your confidence and want to do something new, then you could try talking to your partner using only your voice. This might feel a bit strange at first, but with practice, you should find that your voice becomes softer and more intimate, which is exactly what you need to do to turn your partner on!
Finally, when you are talking on the phone-sex session, you should always make sure that you are referring to each other as “yourself”. You should avoid any reference to your partner as “our partner” or “my partner”, because using these types of pronouns will get your conversation off to a bad start. Instead, you should refer to each other as individual people. Even though you two have been married for many years, it is important that you do not forget that you were both people before marriage, and after marriage, too. Calling your lover by his/her real name will feel much better than calling him/her by his/her name like “Yourself” or “My partner”.
There is nothing more fun than making love using dirty talk. You should take some time and do some research into using some of the more adult-sounding words when you are talking on the phone-sex line. Many couples have discovered that it can be much more fun and exciting than just “making love”. After all, sexting has become more than just a pastime for some people. They actually enjoy having phone sex rather than just setting, so if you find that your partner does not want to have a regular phone sex session, then there is no harm done! In fact, it may even turn out to be more fun and exciting than regular sex.